Physical Relationships and Marriage Laws
Physical Relationships and Marriage Laws
Summary Torah law review of relationships between a man and a woman. Learn the laws of a young virgin, betrothal, marriage, and more. Pictures, Lessons, Quizzes, and Worksheets.
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- Intro
- Righteous Relationships
- Engagment
- Marriage
- Polygyny
- Divorce
- Rape
- Gay
- Perverse Sexual Behavior
- Incest
- Summary
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Physical Relationship Laws
Physical Relationship Law covers the Torah Laws that deal with physical relationships such as
Engagement
Marriage
Divorce
Sex before marriage
Rape
Gay Relationship
Perverse Sexual Behavior
Incest
Righteous Relationships
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Deuteronomy 22:20-21
20 But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:21Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
Engagement
FORCED ENGAGEMENT
YOU CAN NOT DIVORCE A WOMAN WHOM YOU HUMBLED WHEN SHE WAS A VIRGIN, BY NOT ASKING HER FATHER FOR HER HAND IN MARRIAGE BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HER
[29] Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days
DUTY OF A HUSBAND’S BROTHER
[10] And his name shall be called in Israel, The house of him that hath his shoe loosed.
Marriage Laws
WHO CAN GET MARRIED?
NEWLY WEDS DON’T GO TO WAR, as it is written,
When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken. – Deuteronomy 24:5
Times of Separation During a Marriage
DO NOT SEE YOUR WIFE NAKED WHEN SHE IS ON HER PERIOD
A MAN & HIS WIFE MUST SEPARATE WHEN SHE HAS HER PERIOD, as it is written,
Leviticus 15:19
And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be put apart seven days: and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even.
[20] And every thing that she lieth upon in her separation shall be unclean: every thing also that she sitteth upon shall be unclean.
[21] And whosoever toucheth her bed shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even.
[22] And whosoever toucheth any thing that she sat upon shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. [23] And if it be on her bed, or on any thing whereon she sitteth, when he toucheth it, he shall be unclean until the even.
IF A MAN SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN, AND BY CHANCE, SHE GETS HER PERIOD, HE SHALL ALSO BE UNCLEAN FOR 7 DAYS, as it is written
And if any man lie with her at all, and her flowers be upon him, he shall be unclean seven days; and all the bed whereon he lieth shall be unclean. And if a woman have an issue of her blood many days out of the time of her separation, or if it run beyond the time of her separation; all the days of the issue of her uncleanness shall be as the days of her separation: she shall be unclean. Every bed whereon she lieth all the days of her issue shall be unto her as the bed of her separation: and whatsoever she sitteth upon shall be unclean, as the uncleanness of her separation. And whosoever toucheth those things shall be unclean, and shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. But if she be cleansed of her issue, then she shall number to herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean. – Leviticus 15:24-28
NO SEX WHEN A WOMAN HAS HER PERIOD!
PUNISHMENT
IF A MAN KNOWINGLY SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN WHILE ON HER PERIOD, THEY MUST BE CUT OFF FROM AMONG THEIR PEOPLE, as it is written,
[1] And Yahuwah spake unto Moses, saying, [2] Speak unto the children of Israel, saying,-
AFTER A WOMAN GIVE BIRTH TO A MALE CHILD SHE WILL BE UNCLEAN FOR 7 DAYS, & PURIFY FOR 33 DAYS AFTER THAT, as it is written,
If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean. And in the eighth day the flesh of his foreskin shall be circumcised. And she shall then continue in the blood of her purifying three and thirty days; she shall touch no hallowed thing, nor come into the sanctuary, until the days of her purifying be fulfilled. – Leviticus 12:2-4
AFTER GIVEN BIRTH TO A FEMALE CHILD SHE SHALL BE UNCLEAN FOR 2 WEEKS & PURIFY FOR 66 DAYS AFTER THAT, as it is written,
But if she bear a maid child, then she shall be unclean two weeks, as in her separation: and she shall continue in the blood of her purifying threescore and six days. – Leviticus 12:5
ISSUES OF SPERM
TAKE A SHOWER AFTER SEX, as it is written
***Leviticus 15: 16
And if any man’s seed of copulation go out from him, then he shall wash all his flesh in water, and be unclean until the even.
[17] And every garment, and every skin, whereon is the seed of copulation, shall be washed with water, and be unclean until the even.
[18] The woman also with whom man shall lie with seed of copulation, they shall both bathe themselves in water, and be unclean until the even.
[31] Thus shall ye separate the children of Israel from their uncleanness; that they die not in their uncleanness, when they defile my tabernacle that is among them. [32] This is the law of him that hath an issue, and of him whose seed goeth from him, and is defiled therewith;
Polygyny
YOUR FIRST WIFE’S LIFE STYLE MUST STAY THE SAME IF YOU MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN
Her food, clothes & duty of marriage has to remain the same, as it is written…
Exodus 21:10
If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish. 11 And if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without money.
DO NOT TAKE ANOTHER MAN’S WIFE TO COMMIT ADULTERY WITH HER
Leviticus 20:10
And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
Deuteronomy 22:22
If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
DO NOT TAKE A BETROTHE (engaged with a covenant ) WOMAN TO COMMIT ADULTERY WITH HER
Deuteronomy 22:23-24
23If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her; 24 Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour’s wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you.
KINGS ARE NOT PERMITTED TO MULTIPLE WIVES
Deuteronomy 17:14
When thou art come unto the land which YHWH thy Elohim giveth thee, and shalt possess it, and shalt dwell therein, and shalt say, I will set a king over me, like as all the nations that are about me; 17 Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away:
DO NOT SEE A WOMAN & HER DAUGHTER NAKED
DIVORCE LAW
Exodus 21:10
If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish. 11 And if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without money.
NOTE:
UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART
YOU CAN NOT DIVORCE A WOMAN WHOM YOU HUMBLED WHEN SHE WAS A VIRGIN, BY NOT ASKING HER FATHER FOR HER HAND IN MARRIAGE BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HER
[29] Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days
- Adultery
- Lying About Virginity
- Leaving YHWH
Rape
*** NOTE***
IN ORDER FOR A CASE TO BE CONSIDERED RAPE THERE MUST BE AN INDICATION OF “FORCE” ACCORDING TO THE LAW OF YHWH
RAPE OF AN ENGAGED WOMAN
25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die.26 But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter:
27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
FORCE =
- FOUND HER – unwilling meeting
- WOMAN CRIES
- NONE TO SAVE HER
“For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.”
A woman must scream for help if she is going to be raped. If she can’t scream, she must tell someone once she has escaped. Otherwise, it appears as if she was in one consent with the man that lay with her. If the scriptures doesn’t indicate that the woman is being forced because she does not scream, than it is not rape.
THERE IS A COMMONLY MISTAKEN SCRIPTURES FOR RAPE…
MY NOTES:Deuteronomy 22:28-29 isn’t referring rape, because KEYWORDS of RAPE are MISSING, such as…
FORCE =
- FOUND HER – unwilling meeting
- WOMAN CRIES
- NONE TO SAVE HER
What kind of father would approve his daughter to marry her rapist?
2 MORE CASES NOT RAPE:
CASE OF THE MARRIED WOMAN & HER LOVER
KEYWORDS of RAPE are MiSSING, such as…
FORCE =
- FOUND HER – unwilling meeting
- WOMAN CRIES
- NONE TO SAVE HER
BETROTHE WOMAN & HER LOVER WHO IS NOT HER FIANCE
[24] Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour’s wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you.
KEYWORDS of RAPE are MiSSING, such as…FORCE =
- FOUND HER – unwilling meeting
- WOMAN CRIES
- NONE TO SAVE HER
“the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour’s wife:”
- The Betrothe woman was not in an area alone, she had a chance to be saved if she was raped, but her lack of crying out proves she wasn’t raped.
- We must be very careful not to say a scripture or law is speaking about rape, if there are no indications of the woman crying out or in an area alone with none to help.
Gay (Sodomy)
SUMMARY OF THE LAWS OF BEING GAY (Sodomy)
YHWH GAVE MAN A WOMAN TO MARRY, as it is written,
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
THERE ARE NO GAY RIGHTS or OPTIONS TO BE GAY!
IF A MAN HAS SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN, THEY ARE REQUIRED TO BE PUT TO DEATH, as it is written,
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.-Leviticus 20:13
Perverse Sexual Behavior
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANIMALS
Incest
DO NOT COMMIT INCEST
DO NOT MARRY YOUR NEAREST RELATIVES, as it is written…
Leviticus 18:6-19
[6] None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am YHWH.
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH or SEE THE NAKEDNESS OF YOUR SISTER or BROTHER
DO NOT SLEEP WITH STEP MOTHER or SEE HER NAKED
Cursed be he that lieth with his mother in law. And all the people shall say, Amen.
Leviticus 20:11
And the man that lieth with his father’s wife hath uncovered his father’s nakedness: both of them shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 18:8
The nakedness of thy father’s wife shalt thou not uncover: it is thy father’s nakedness.
DO NOT SLEEP WITH YOUR UNCLE’S WIFE
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR DAUGHTER IN-LAW
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BROTHER’S WIFE or SEE HER NAKED
DO NOT SEE YOUR PARENTS NAKED
Summary
MEN ARE REQUIRED TO ASK THE FATHER OF THE WOMAN THEY WANT TO MARRY FOR PERMISSION & PAY A DOWRY OF VIRGINS, as it is written,
PRIESTS ARE ONLY ALLOWED TO TAKE A WOMAN WHO IS A VIRGIN FOR THEIR WIVES, as it is written,…
DO NOT LIE ABOUT YOUR VIRGINITY & DO NOT BE PROMISCUOUS
A MAN WILL PAY HIGH FINES FOR MAKING FALSE ACCUSATIONS ABOUT HIS WIFE’S VIRGINITY, as it is written,
Deuteronomy 22:13
If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,14 And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:15 Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:16 And the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
JUDGMENT FOR THE WOMAN WHO LIED ABOUT HER VIRGINITY & PLAYED THE WHORE IN HER FATHERS HOUSE, as it is written,
Deuteronomy 22:20-21
20 But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:21Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
DUTY OF A HUSBAND’S BROTHER
[10] And his name shall be called in Israel, The house of him that hath his shoe loosed.
ONLY A MAN AND A WOMB-MAN CAN GET MARRIED, as it is written
NEWLY WEDS DON’T GO TO WAR, as it is written,
When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken. – Deuteronomy 24:5
DO NOT SEE YOUR WIFE NAKED WHEN SHE IS ON HER PERIOD
A MAN & HIS WIFE MUST SEPARATE WHEN SHE HAS HER PERIOD, as it is written,
And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be put apart seven days: and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even. [20] And every thing that she lieth upon in her separation shall be unclean: every thing also that she sitteth upon shall be unclean. [21] And whosoever toucheth her bed shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. [22] And whosoever toucheth any thing that she sat upon shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. [23] And if it be on her bed, or on any thing whereon she sitteth, when he toucheth it, he shall be unclean until the even. – Leviticus 15:19
IF A MAN SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN, AND BY CHANCE, SHE GETS HER PERIOD, HE SHALL ALSO BE UNCLEAN FOR 7 DAYS, as it is written
And if any man lie with her at all, and her flowers be upon him, he shall be unclean seven days; and all the bed whereon he lieth shall be unclean. And if a woman have an issue of her blood many days out of the time of her separation, or if it run beyond the time of her separation; all the days of the issue of her uncleanness shall be as the days of her separation: she shall be unclean. Every bed whereon she lieth all the days of her issue shall be unto her as the bed of her separation: and whatsoever she sitteth upon shall be unclean, as the uncleanness of her separation. And whosoever toucheth those things shall be unclean, and shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. But if she be cleansed of her issue, then she shall number to herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean. – Leviticus 15:24-28
NO SEX WHEN A WOMAN HAS HER PERIOD!
PUNISHMENT
IF A MAN KNOWINGLY SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN WHILE ON HER PERIOD, THEY MUST BE CUT OFF FROM AMONG THEIR PEOPLE, as it is written,
AFTER A WOMAN GIVE BIRTH TO A MALE CHILD SHE WILL BE UNCLEAN FOR 7 DAYS, & PURIFY FOR 33 DAYS AFTER THAT, as it is written,
If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean. And in the eighth day the flesh of his foreskin shall be circumcised. And she shall then continue in the blood of her purifying three and thirty days; she shall touch no hallowed thing, nor come into the sanctuary, until the days of her purifying be fulfilled. – Leviticus 12:2-4
AFTER GIVEN BIRTH TO A FEMALE CHILD SHE SHALL BE UNCLEAN FOR 2 WEEKS & PURIFY FOR 66 DAYS AFTER THAT, as it is written,
But if she bear a maid child, then she shall be unclean two weeks, as in her separation: and she shall continue in the blood of her purifying threescore and six days. – Leviticus 12:5
TAKE A SHOWER AFTER SEX, as it is written
And if any man’s seed of copulation go out from him, then he shall wash all his flesh in water, and be unclean until the even. [17] And every garment, and every skin, whereon is the seed of copulation, shall be washed with water, and be unclean until the even. [18] The woman also with whom man shall lie with seed of copulation, they shall both bathe themselves in water, and be unclean until the even. [31] Thus shall ye separate the children of Israel from their uncleanness; that they die not in their uncleanness, when they defile my tabernacle that is among them. [32] This is the law of him that hath an issue, and of him whose seed goeth from him, and is defiled therewith; – Leviticus 15: 16
YOUR FIRST WIFE’S LIFE STYLE MUST STAY THE SAME IF YOU MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN,as it is written…
If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish. 11 And if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without money. – Exodus 21:10
If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.- Deuteronomy 22:22
DO NOT TAKE A BETROTHE (engaged with a covenant ) WOMAN TO COMMIT ADULTERY WITH HER
23If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her; 24 Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour’s wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you.- Deuteronomy 22:23-24
KINGS ARE NOT PERMITTED TO MULTIPLE WIVES
When thou art come unto the land which YHWH thy Elohim giveth thee, and shalt possess it, and shalt dwell therein, and shalt say, I will set a king over me, like as all the nations that are about me; 17 Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away: – Deuteronomy 17:14
DO NOT SEE A WOMAN & HER DAUGHTER NAKED
UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART, YOU CAN NOT DIVORCE A WOMAN WHOM YOU HUMBLED WHEN SHE WAS A VIRGIN, BY NOT ASKING HER FATHER FOR HER HAND IN MARRIAGE BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HER
[29] Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days
YHWH GAVE MAN A WOMAN TO MARRY, as it is written,
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. – Genesis 2:23-24
THERE ARE NO GAY RIGHTS or OPTIONS TO BE GAY!
as it is written, There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel. –Deuteronomy 23:17
IF A MAN HAS SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN, THEY ARE REQUIRED TO BE PUT TO DEATH, as it is written,
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.-Leviticus 20:13
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANIMALS, as it is written…
DO NOT COMMIT INCEST
DO NOT MARRY YOUR NEAREST RELATIVES, as it is written…
None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am YHWH. – Leviticus 18:6-19
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH or SEE THE NAKEDNESS OF YOUR SISTER or BROTHER, as it is written…
Cursed be he that lieth with his sister, the daughter of his father, or the daughter of his mother. And all the people shall say, Amen. – Deuteronomy 27:22
DO NOT SLEEP WITH STEP MOTHER or SEE HER NAKED, as it is written…
DO NOT SLEEP WITH YOUR UNCLE’S WIFE, as it is written…
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR DAUGHTER IN-LAW, as it is written…
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BROTHER’S WIFE or SEE HER NAKED, as it is written…
DO NOT SEE YOUR PARENTS NAKED, as it is written…
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