Engagement – Betrothe, Betrothal, Torah Law Studies, Bible, Scriptures
Engagement – Betrothe, Betrothal, Torah Law Studies, Bible, Scriptures
Engagement
MEN ARE REQUIRED TO ASK THE FATHER FOR PERMISSION TO MARRY HIS DAUGHTER
A man interested in a young virginal woman is required by the Torah Law to ask her father for the daughters hand in marriage and pay the dowry of virgins.
What happens if a man sleeps with a virgin before marriage?
Answer: The father has the option to refuse this man, but the father is still entitled to receive the dowry of virgins. This law protects the father’s daughter because it discourages men from sleeping with his virginal daughter without asking him, because he has a right to refuse.
It would be better for a man who has an interest in a woman to ask the father for permission instead of dishonoring his daughter by sleeping with her before marriage. The value or dowry of a virgin is high, see link below…
Learn more (sister website): http://followeroftheway.com/womens-ministry/price-of-a-virgin-in-dollar-bills/
Read the Law:
A MAN SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN BEFORE ASKING FATHER FOR PERMISSIONS
Exodus 22:
Many people read Exodus 22:16-17 and think that having sex makes you married, but this is not the case. If the father refuses as is his right to, there will be no marriage. So having sex can not make you married.
MAN SLEEPS WITH A WOMAN BEFORE ASKING FATHER FOR PERMISSION (Not Rape)
[29] Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days
Deuteronomy 22:28 is often more than not, thought of as rape, but this is the same situation as Exodus 22:16-17. The man entices a young virgin who was not betrothed to another man and they sleep together. The man is required to pay the dowry as in Exodus 22:16-17. The father still has the right to refuse as stated in Exodus 22:16-17.
The people who believe this scripture is saying a woman is required to marry her rapist, are not thinking straight. If that was the case than they are saying the father can’t refuse when a woman is raped. That is barbaric and sick! This verse is poorly translated in Old English and when we read it, we may think its speaking about a woman being raped.
FORCED ENGAGEMENT
YOU CAN NOT DIVORCE A WOMAN WHOM YOU HUMBLED WHEN SHE WAS A VIRGIN, BY NOT ASKING HER FATHER FOR HER HAND IN MARRIAGE BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HER
[29] Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days
DUTY OF A HUSBAND’S BROTHER
[10] And his name shall be called in Israel, The house of him that hath his shoe loosed.
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